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I'm Aiden, the Avon Rep & Team Leader. I am also the Owner of Kirchner Admin Services. I am an entrepreneur. Welcome to my Website & to my Blog.

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30 Day Personal Growth Challenge

FYI: I do not know what App that is above. Sorry.

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BRAND STRATEGY

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HOW TO BE CONFIDENT

• Confident people don't seek approval or praise.
• Confident people aren't desperate for attention.
• Confident people don't need to prove anything to anyone.
• Confident people aren't afraid of trying new things and taking risks.
• Confident people aren't afraid to be wrong.
• Confident people aren't afraid of change.
• Confident people respect themselves.
• Confident people aren't envious of other people's success.
• Confident people don't yell and don't start a fight.
• Confident people aren't afraid to say NO.
• Confident people aren't afraid to tell the truth.
• Confident people don't show much interest in the lives of other people.
• Confident people have positive thinking.

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10 Ways to Experience a Positive Shift in 2023

1. ​Show up for yourself first by committing to a morning routine.
2. Speak affirmations aloud.
3. Spend at least 5-10 minutes per day in stillness.
4. Move your body daily.
5. Step out of your comfort zone and try new things.
6. Take time to celebrate your wins.
7. Be compassionate and give yourself time to rest.
8. Nurture relationships with people who love and respect who you are.
9. Listen to your heart and trust your intuition.
10. ​Pause, breathe, and give yourself grace.

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THINGS I STOPPED DOING TO GAIN PEACE IN MY LIFE

• Arguing with people
• Wasting energy on one-sided relationships.
• Overcommitting my time when I didn't have the energy.
• Accepting & excusing toxic behavior because that was more comfortable than change.
• Allowing dysfunctional family members steal my joy.
• Trying to fix people as an "act of love".
• Discarding my boundaries to fit (uncomfortable) in other people's lives.
• Holding on to limiting beliefs about my life, self-worth, and potential.
• Pretending to be happy when I was hurting.
• Silencing my voice & not naming my needs.
• Overthinking about my past & things I cannot change.
• Holding onto people I've outgrown because of the "time invested".
• Going along to get along.
• Overlooking my blessings & comparing my life to someone else's.
• Abandoning myself, my truth, and my integrity to "fit in".
• Waiting for external validation to boost my confidence.
• Trying to change people who were committed to staying the same.

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DALE CARNEGIE'S PRINCIPLES FOR SOCIAL INFLUENCE

6 WAYS TO MAKE A LAST IMPRESSION

1. Take interest in others' interests.
2. Use their name.
   
3. Discuss what matters to them.
   
4. Smile.
   
5. Listen and encourage others to talk.
6. ​Make others feel important.
   

​10 WAYS TO EARN TRUST & CREDIBILITY

1. Avoid arguments.
   
2. Never tell others they are wrong.
   
3. Admit your faults quickly & emphatically.
   
4. Begin in a friendly way, when faced with resistance.
   
5. Connect with core desires & let the others do the talking.
   
6. Let others take the credit.
   
7. Engage with empathy.
   
8. Appeal to noble motives.
   
9. Dramatize your ideas; tell a story.
   
10. Throw down a challenge.
    

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10 THINGS TO LET GO

• Other people's approval.
  
• Your comfort zone.
  
• Dwelling on the past/future.
  
• Old stories about yourself.
  
• The need for control.
  
• The need for certainty.
  
• Being "productive" all the time.
  
• Feeling 100% ready.
  
• Perfection (it doesn't exist).
  
• Judgement of self & others.
  

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​25 Life Lessons from "The Last Lecture" by Randy Pausch

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WHAT YOU SHOULD NEVER​ DO

1. NEVER allow people to disrespect you, or it will happen again.
2. NEVER allow anyone to tell you your goals are too big or impossible.
3. NEVER date an unavailable person. This includes people who are married, in a committed relationship, or actively using or addicted to drugs, alcohol, or something else.
4. NEVER forget your worth and your value, and don't let anyone define you in a negative way.
5. NEVER settle for a life partner, it is better to wait long than marry wrong.
6. NEVER allow toxic people to remain in your life.
7. NEVER take anyone for granted. Remember people are rented not owned.
8. NEVER allow anyone to determine your work or career path.
9. NEVER give up on the things that are meaningful or mean the most to you. (Failure is not an option).

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IFYOU LEARNED TO HIDE YOUR NEEDS AND FEELINGS, ​YOU MAY:

• Fear that being honest or vulnerable will push people away.
• Struggle to tolerate people who needs lots of reassurance or are easily offended.
• Only leave bad situations when they become completely unbearable.
• Feel guilty and uncertain when you assert yourself.
• Isolate yourself when you're going through a rough patch.

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BOUNDARIES VS STANDARDS

Boundaries are designed to keep your self-love intact & prevent you from being manipulated, used or violated.

• No last minute dates.
• No calls after 11pm.
• No Netflix & Chill dates.
• No sex before commitment.
• I will not tolerate verbal abuse
• I will not date anyone still in a relationship with someone else.
• I will not play the role of mother/father in relationships.
• I will not date someone who disrespects me in any way.
• I will not chase anyone for love, affection, and/or attention.
• I will not pursue anyone who is emotionally unavailable.

Standards are the qualities that must be present before you agree to entertain someone romantically.

• Must have the basics: Job, own place and able to support themselves.
• Must be in a career they enjoy.
• No coffee/drive by dates.
• Must demonstrate integrity.
• No criminal record or drug use.
• Emotionally, physically and financially healthy.
• Introspective & understands how to manage conflict.
• Willing to work towards being the best version of themselves.
• Open to becoming conscious of and working on their issues/shadow work.

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THINGS TO LET GO OF TO FREE YOUR ENERGY

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You are NOT​ helping people by doing this:

• Not holding people accountable.
• Making excuses for them.
• Creating an environment where they have to keep coming to you for help.
• Giving them the answers and not showing them how to find solutions on their own.
• Doing things for them.
• Speaking to them negatively and calling it "tough love"​

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17 Ways to get to Know Yourself Better​

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Rules for Kicking Ass in Life​

1. See failure as a beginning, not an end.
2. If you don't go after it, you won't have it.
3. Always do more than what is expected of you.
4. Teach other what you know.
5. Assume nothing and question everything.
6. Make peace with the past or you'll pay for it.
7. Stop thinking so much and start acting.
8. Never compare yourself to others.

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10 Things to do to Overcome Self-Doubt​

1. Remind yourself that you are capable, competent, and courageous.
2. Spend 5 minutes in stillness. Quiet time helps you turn self-dount monsters into meek mouses.
3. Create a confidence-boosting music playlist and listen to it.
4. Say a prayer asking to return to your inner wisdom that knows your true value.
5. Make a list of all your accomplishments (even small ones).
6. Remind yourself that self-doubts are the voice of fear. Fear that tells you you're not good enough is a flat-out liar.
7. Bathe your mind in self-worth and confidence affirmations.
8. Step back from your thoughts and say, "Wait a minute! Is what I'm saying true or just self-bullying?".
9. Think a self-loving thought.
10. Walk it out. Literally, take some time to pay attention to your body rather than your mind.

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20 Things You Should Do Every Day

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20 INTENTIONS to Make Your Day Happier

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